Melly Elizabeth's Musings

Cow Puppets!

2010-08-23T21:56:00.001-05:00

This weeks preschool lessons for little Joe are about cows, so today we all made cow puppets. I thought the big boys would enjoy doing this craft as well. :)

After we had made the puppets, Jacob realized something was missing...We had forgotten to draw on their hearts! I just love my precious Jacob!

We had a rather good school day. Our memory verse this week, Matthew 5:9, "Blessed are the peacemakers..." was just the verse my heart needed. I love how God works that way! We talked about the story of Abraham and Lot, and how Lot chose for himself the better pasture. I love God's timing, and how he can use teaching a child a bible story to remind us of such important lessons. By taking the best for himself, Lot positioned himself right near two wicked cities, and brought pain into his family. What a powerful lesson!

I was so blessed today by a lady I don't really even know. My amazing friends have been helping out with meals while I have been recovering from my back problems. A few of the ladies that I do not know have even brought meals. This lady brought over a delicious Turkish meal (I had never had Turkish food before!) which our family very much enjoyed. She also brought me this pot of yellow flowers, and can I just tell you how much that made my day! It was like bringing in a pot of sunshine! I just know I will feel the kindness of her gesture whenever I see them on the table. What a sweet, sweet lady!

Love,

Weekend Happenings

2010-08-23T21:40:00.000-05:00

Saturday the sun came back out, so Jacob and I went outside to color as promised. What an enjoyable time! I'm not sure if the 3-D chalk is really 3-D, but it was bright and colorful. :) We drew pictures of our family and flowers and suns and all sorts of fun things.

I love watching the boys play pretend together. They were driving the "dog truck". I'm not sure where they were going, but they were going to get there together and I'm pretty sure the journey was the best part!

Baby Jamie is quite the little pianist. You should hear him sing! He sure enjoys playing piano with mommy, and mommy sure enjoys playing with him. :)

Sunday afternoon we decided to go for a drive along the Sante Fe Trail. I love the area where we live...there are just so many interesting and educational places to go and see! I really think the country land here must be the prettiest in the whole world. There's just something special about the cornfields and green pastures, and that never ending azure blue sky.

Blessings,

Just Another Homeschooling Day...

2010-08-20T10:38:00.003-05:00

The boys and I love starting our mornings off on the right foot by singing together. Every time his brothers start singing, Jamie smiles from ear to ear. He loves their "joyful noise"! Jacob said that his favorite song is "This is the day that the Lord has made!"

Joshua and Joseph built with blocks while Jacob and I worked on handwriting. It is always so neat to see what they will create!

Jacob and I had a bit of a trial, when it came to working on handwriting, but in the end, he said the sweetest thing to me. "Mommy, I love you because you told me I could do it! And now, I can!" His words just melted my heart, and reminded me yet again why I love teaching my children. It's not always easy, but it is so worth it!

This afternoon I am going to work on lesson plans for next week, and on a notebook to organize my stuff for co-op. I LOVE lesson planning. :) We were going to go outside to draw with sidewalk chalk, but then a nasty storm came through, so that will have to wait until tomorrow.

Love,

Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-08-17T21:23:00.000-05:00

Outside my window... a nighttime sky. Oh, and silly moths that are insistent on flying into the window, over and over again. Why do they not realize after the 46th time that doing so will not get them into the light? Then again, perhaps there is a deeper question there. Why do we all insist on doing the same silly things over and over again, only to be frustrated with getting the same result?

I am thinking... Wouldn't you like to know? ;)

From the learning rooms... Oh, oh, oh! We have a new school room and the boys are ever so excited! This week Jacob has been practicing counting to 100, and Jamie is totally enthralled by listening. Joe has mastered (ok, perhaps not mastered, but is working diligently) colors. Joshua is learning patience. Ok, well, he is supposed to be learning patience. He's really rather cute...

I am thankful for... I have been tremendously blessed by the outpouring of love from my friends. They have been helping with meals while I am recovering from my back troubles, and I am just beyond blessed and thankful to have these ladies as friends. Thankful isn't nearly big enough of a word. I am humbled, I feel loved, and I am so, so blessed.

From the kitchen... the love of my wonderful friends.

I am wearing... denim skirt, lime green geometric print top, white cami, black cardigan.

I am reading... "Created to be His Help Meet" by Debi Pearl. (yes, AGAIN)

I am hoping... "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace in believing, so that by the power of the Holy Spirit you may abound in hope." Romans 15:13

I am creating... yesterday Jacob and I made Alphabet posters.

I am praying... "Pray without ceasing." 1 Thessalonians 5:17

Around the house... the quietness of bedtime.

One of my favorite things... "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly, teaching and admonishing one another in all wisdom, singing psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, with thankfulness in your hearts to God." Colossians 3:16

A few plans for the rest of the week... mostly resting and school.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

With Love,

Our New School Room

2010-08-16T21:14:00.000-05:00

This weekend Rick and I were chatting and I told him how many of my friends had been sharing pictures of their school rooms as part of a "Not Back to School" blog carnival. As we were talking it kept coming up that it would be nice to have a dedicated school room again, and so we decided to convert our downstairs office (which wasn't getting much use) into a school room.

Here are the pictures of our new school room:

One of my friends had shared the link to these great Alphabet posters. Each letter poster has a verse that starts with that letter on it. I loved the idea so much that I decided to make them to put on the wall behind the table.

On the main wall we have our white board, our "100 Days" chart and calendar, and Jacob's "Hooked on Phonics" progress chart, as well as our house guidelines.

On that wall we also have our bookshelf with curricula, Bible Friends books, manipulatives, and crayons, basic art supplies, playdough, flashcards, and the printer.

On our big bookshelf we store all of the other various supplies. :)

No school room would be complete without the teacher's desk!

Blessings,

Back to School and Other Such Things

2010-08-16T21:03:00.003-05:00

This morning we returned to school after a break this last month. The boys were so excited to do their lessons in the new school room!

Jamie has been learning to play on his blanket during school time. He loves being able to watch his brothers...especially when we sing!

The big boys loved doing activities at the school table today. I love watching them chat with each other, and work together on a puzzle or game.

On of my dear friends brought over lunch today. The boys had so much fun playing with her little ones, and I much enjoyed visiting with my friend.

This afternoon, while Jacob was looking through a book, he came across the story of Humpty Dumpty. We had the most funny of conversations!

Jacob: "Why would Humpty Dumpty sit on a wall? Everyone knows that that's not safe!"
Mommy: "That's a really good question, Jacob. I don't know why he did that."
Jacob: "Hey! That man is an egg!"
Mommy: "Yes he is. It's quite a funny story, isn't it?"
Jacob: "But Mommy, why did they glue him back together. Eggs are SUPPOSED to break."
Mommy: (chuckling) "Yes, but it's a pretend story, so they wanted to help him."
Jacob: "But we EAT eggs. They're supposed to break and then we cook them and eat them."
Ahhhh, what do you say to that, other than to smile?

My big helper wanted to help make dinner, so he peeled the potatoes. I love working together with him. :)

Blessings,

Pool Party!

2010-08-07T14:15:00.003-05:00

For Jacob's birthday he really wanted to have a party with his friends. He was so excited to have his friends over to swim and have cake! He was so cute...when his friends arrived with presents he was just so shocked and even more giddy. He kept saying, "My friends are bringing presents? Wow, this is so cool!" Everyone had a great time playing in the pool, and Daddy grilled yummy hamburgers and hot dogs for us all.

Since Jacob loves dogs so much, we picked a dog cake. He loved it!

Jacob's favorite part of the party was when everyone sang "Happy Birthday" to him. He just grinned from ear to ear.

It was too cute watching him open gifts. He kept exclaiming, "I love it! I love it! I don't know what it is, but I LOVE it!"

Happy Birthday, sweet Jacob! I can't believe my baby boy is five!!!!

Love,

Happy Birthday Jacob!

2010-08-05T14:49:00.000-05:00

Five years ago today, the most amazing thing happened. A beautiful baby boy entered this world and forever changed my heart and my life forever. I knew from the minute I first looked into his eyes that he was someone incredibly special. It has been an amazing blessing to watch him grow and develop into this incredible person! I love you Jacob!

Love,

Jacob's Birthday Dinner

2010-08-05T14:34:00.002-05:00

Jacob wanted to go to Cracker Barrel for his special birthday dinner. He was just so giddy with excitement about it being his birthday. He could not wait to tell anyone who would listen.

The waitress brought Jacob an ice cream sundae to celebrate his birthday. He said, "Oh thank you! You made it just the way I like it!" (Wonder who he sounds like there...There's definitely a career in sales for him!)

An older lady who had overheard that it was his birthday stopped by to tell him Happy Birthday, and gave him a $5 bill. It was just so sweet! He gave her a big hug and said thank you. He decided he definitely likes birthdays!

Love,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-06-30T12:31:00.001-05:00

Outside my window... a beautiful Summer day

I am thinking... man, I love my boys!

From the learning rooms... loving the new curriculum, and lots and lots of reading! Yippee!

I am thankful for... great friends and "family"

From the kitchen... teething biscuits, and I'm not sure what else...yet...

I am wearing... brown tiered skirt, brown and green print camisole, green cardigan

I am reading... "The Creative Family" by Amanda Blake Soule, I'm really enjoying this book. :)

I am hoping... to get back on the work-out wagon next week

I am creating... schedules and menus and lesson plans, oh my!

I am praying... for clarity and wisdom

Around the house... same things as usual. :)

One of my favorite things... watching the boys play together, with nothing more than their imaginations, some hats, a couch and pillows. Oh, and watching three little boys cuddle together like the best of friends!

A few plans for the rest of the week... busy with school work and house work,

Here is a picture thought(s) I am sharing with you..

Making our "100 Box" for school!

Our finished box!

Love,

Fitting in Preschool

2010-06-24T16:44:00.000-05:00

I've had a lot of emails lately asking for advice on how to fit preschool into an already over full day. Here are few little activities that you can do with little ones as you go about your day.

1. Give child a cookie sheet and magnets. Have a variety of sets, such as the alphabet, numbers, or colors and shapes. This can be a free-play activity or you can suggest some type of learning game. “Let’s sort these food magnets by food group.” or “Can you put these letters in order? Sing the song to help you.” or “What comes after each of these numbers?” Keep it fresh by rotating the magnet sets and making the children put them back in a ziploc when you leave the area.

2. Keep your puzzles in a place where they can be used regularly near you while you do something else. For an added challenge, you can take the pieces out of two or more puzzles and have your child sort them into the correct puzzle.

3. Cooking: Let your children join you in the kitchen! I know they make messes, but you’ll survive. Talk the whole time: tell them what you’re cooking, why you chose it (“Daddy loves this casserole.”), what ingredients you are using, what they do (“This baking soda makes the biscuits rise.”), what utensils you’re using, etc. Let them dump ingredients, stir, and anything else they can handle. Children learn so much while helping in the kitchen! Math, science, responsibility, helpfulness...

4. Let child help you while doing housework, and sing songs together. Don't underestimate the value of music! You would be amazed at how much children retain just from learning a new song!

5. Let children help with simple tasks such as sorting laundry. We have a "dot system" in our house to help sort the boys clothing, so they look at the tag and count the dots to know who's clothes are who's. It's a great math activity!

6. Flaschcards. Keep flashcards on hand and run through them throughout the day. It doesn't take much time, but the repetition is fantastic for helping little ones learn and retain information.

Hope these little tips help with trying to fit a little extra learning time into your busy day!

Love,

Marble System

2010-06-23T16:10:00.001-05:00

I have had so many questions lately about our "Marble System", so I figured it was past time to write a post about it. :)

There are actually two ways our Marble System works, so I will explain both. The first method is based off of working to achieve a long term goal, and the second method has shorter term rewards. You can use either method, or a combination of the two depending on what works best with your children. In my opinion there are great things about both ways of using it.

We have a large jar filled with "marbles" (actually we used decorative stones since this sits on our desk in the kitchen. I wanted it to look pretty as well as serve a purpose.). Each boy has a jar (we just used canning jars) with their name on it. (we used scrapbooking stickers :) )

The boys earn marbles for good behavior. We have a a chart on our refrigerator that lists character qualities and corresponding Scripture verses and we use this to encourage them. When they do something that exhibits one of these qualities, they earn a marble and we read about it from the chart. They don't automatically earn marbles for doing chores, but if they go above and beyond on something then they earn a marble for that. They can also lose marbles for negative behaviors.

Method 1 - They can work toward a big prize by earning enough marbles to fill their jar. This can be a toy, or getting to go see a movie or a trip for icecream- whatever you feel is appropriate.

Method 2 - They can use the marbles they earn as "currency" for extra privileges. (such as watching television, computer time...)

The nice thing about the marble system is that it works for a wide range of ages. For younger children, the instant reward of getting to pick a marble and put it in their jar just makes their day. For older children. they learn to work towards a goal, and also learn that doing the right thing can be really rewarding. They also learn that negative behavior takes them farther from reaching their goal (isn't that a fabulous life lesson?!)

Love,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-06-22T20:52:00.000-05:00

Outside my window... the sun is setting on a pretty nice day.

I am thinking... Sigh. My heart feels sad for people who's lives must be utterly miserable for them to seek out hurting others.

From the learning rooms... New curriculum!!!! Yay!!!!

I am thankful for... an abundance of "stuff", even though it was driving me crazy earlier when trying to get organized, lol!

From the kitchen... pot roast, mashed potatoes, veggies and sweet tea. Oh, and haircuts...yeah, we do haircuts in the kitchen, lol.

I am wearing... navy blue pants, a green and blue geometric print shirt.

I am reading... "For the Children's Sake" by Susan Schaeffer Macaulay

I am hoping... that Joshua wakes up tomorrow with his cough all better. Poor bear!

I am creating... organized spaces!

I am praying... for patience.

Around the house... same things as usual. :)

One of my favorite things... looking forward to Rick having a vacation.

A few plans for the rest of the week... meeting with a friend tomorrow to talk about homeschool co-op plans, a party on Thursday, school, hopefully the gym, and all the usual good stuff.

Here is a picture thought(s) I am sharing with you..

Love,

2010-06-22T20:32:00.000-05:00

Anonymous has left a new comment on your post "The Grass is Greener...":

did you think you could hide in your "closet"

Dear "Anonymous",
It would be awfully silly of me to be "hiding" under a domain name that is my actual name. :)

Hugs,

A Father's Day Poem

2010-06-21T12:32:00.001-05:00

What Makes a Dad

God took the strength of a mountain,

The majesty of a tree,

The warmth of the Summer sun,

The calm of the quiet sea,

The generous soul of nature,

The comforting arm of night,

The wisdom of the ages,

The power of the eagle's flight,

The joy of the morning in Spring,

The faith of a mustard seed,

The patience of eternity,

The depth of a family in need,

Then God combined these qualities,

When there was nothing more to add,

He knew His masterpiece was complete,

And so...

He called it Dad!

- author unknown

The boys made tool belts. They colored paper tools and on each tool we wrote something about Daddy that we love.

Jacob said, "I love that Daddy lets me ride with him sometimes", "He works really hard for us", "Hugs and Kisses" and "He is silly with me."

Joshua said, "Big bear hugs", "He likes to hold me", "He works really hard for us", and "He reads me stories."

Joseph said, "Tucks me in at night", "Hugs and Kisses", and "He works really hard for us."

"Honor your father and mother, as the Lord your God has commanded you." ~ Deuteronomy 5:16

Love,

A Father's Day Swim!

2010-06-20T20:12:00.000-05:00

All Daddy wanted to do for Father's Day was spend the day in the pool. I love how it is the simplest things that make him the happiest!

Daddy wanted to try out his new grill, so he grilled out hotdogs and brats. It's kinda funny that he ended up going for us on Father's Day, but it's what he wanted, and we all had such a lovely time!

It ended up being a beautiful day to spend in the pool.

The boys had fun eating their yummy dinner outside. We made a batch of frozen strawberry drinks, and the boys thought that was the coolest! I was so glad I caught this sweet moment between Joshua and Joe sharing their chips!

Joe didn't want to be in his "baby boat" today...he wanted to SWIM! I am totally amazed at how well he is doing. It just seems to come naturally to him. He was feeling especially brave today and wanted to try jumping from the side!

Joe wasn't even scared when he went underwater! After Joe jumped a bunch of times, Jacob was even willing to give it a try. Jacob is my sweet cautious one, so I was proud of him for being so brave!

We had a great time hanging out in the pool. I'm glad that Daddy was able to spend the day just how he wanted!

I'm so proud to call this man the father of my children. I am so amazed by the example that he sets for them everyday. I love seeing how much they adore him, and want to emulate him. Happy Father's Day to the best daddy ever!

Love,

Splash Park!

2010-06-19T20:09:00.000-05:00

The boys had a fantastic time at the Splash Park at our gym. It was hilarious, when Jacob first went up to go down the slide he said, "Um, this water's kinda getting me all wet." Yeah, it's kinda a water park, dude. Joe was a little unsure at first. He hung out around the edges for quite some time before actually going in. Jacob was scared at first about going down the water slide, but then one of the big kids that was there went with him, and after that he LOVED it! Then Jacob went with Joshua since he was a little scared, too. Joe never did go down the slide, but he had a blast playing in the pool at the bottom.

We had a great afternoon playing with friends of ours. The Splash Park sure is a fun place to play on a hot day!

Love,

25 Things I Don't Want You to Know...

2010-06-18T17:30:00.001-05:00

Kat over at Inspired to Action wrote a great post about how as bloggers (and really, as all women), we often put our best foot forward. We don't write about the moments we don't want everyone to see, and we don't share all of our ridiculous imperfections. I was inspired by her list of 25 things to write one myself!

So, here are 25 things about me that I DON'T want you to know.
1. I am a real grump in the morning. No seriously. Don't talk to me before I have had coffee. If I do answer you (which is fairly unlikely since usually it's nothing more than unpleasant "grunts" until after my first cup) you won't like what you hear.
2. I pout like a three year old. It's ridiculous and totally non-grown-up, but I totally pout if I don't get my way. It's true. Just ask Prince Charming.
3. I purposely keep the house at a cooler temperature than what I find comfortable because I like having an excuse to wear a light sweater or curl up under a blanket. Yes, I know. I need to call Sweaters Anonymous NOW.
4. I love wearing sweaters because I am disgusted by my arms. All women seem to have body issues, and mine is definitely my arms. I have huge "mom" arms from carrying around massive toddlers for years. I'm totally embarrassed by my silly biceps. It's silly, but I worry they make me look fatter than I really am.
5. I sometimes forget to eat until my blood sugar gets low and I get shaky. It's horrible. I get busy and forget to feed myself.
6. If I try on a new skirt, I still twirl around to see how it "spins", just like I did when I was three years old. Hmmm, wondering if part of me is still three?
7. I still have a teddy bear on my bed. 'Nuff said.
8. I am a total space cadet. I get a lot of compliments on how organized I am. I'm organized because I have to be. Otherwise I would wander aimlessly because I can't remember what I'm supposed to be doing!
9. Every time I spend any real amount of time writing (like, the old-fashioned way...ya know, with a pen and paper? Yeah, people still do that.) I get ink all over my hands.
10. I'm terribly insecure and hate speaking in front of people because I don't want them to think that I'm stupid. I don't really get that one, I know deep down that I'm actually rather intelligent, I usually don't bother saying much about a topic unless it's something I know about, and I don't actually know of anyone who thinks that I am stupid. Seriously though, you might ask a question about baking, and I'll worry about speaking up. Crazy, huh?
11. I actually believe that I have the most beautiful children on Earth. Kinda conceited, isn't it? Seriously though, they are gorgeous and I know it. Now, I'm not sure how they ended up so gorgeous, but I'll take it!
12. I sometimes wish that I was less "nice". Totally silly, right? I am actually self conscious about it. Someone used to give me a hard time about it, constantly saying "No one is really that nice". I think that always messes with me a bit. 'Cuz seriously, I am that nice. Just ask the people I'm around a lot, they'll tell ya, lol. Seriously though, I have figured out that some people will take advantage of that. And even though I know it, I'm too stinkin' nice to stop being nice. Sigh...
13. I cry easily. I get my feelings hurt, and I cry. I get mad, and I cry. I see a sappy commercial, and I cry. Don't even get me started on Charlotte's Web...I literally cannot get through the opening song.
14. I hate driving. A lot. Seriously, if I never had to do it again, that would be more than fine by me. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy going places. I just wish that I didn't have to drive to do it, lol.
15. I stay up too late. I end up staying up late, even when I am beyond tired, just because I like spending the extra time with my husband. Kinda sappy, isn't it?
16. I love buying shoes, but absolutely hate wearing them. If you come to my house in the middle of the day, you will never find me wearing shoes. I literally only put them on if I HAVE to, and even then, the second I get in the car (if I'm not driving ;0) they come off.
17. I love watching either junk television (think "Real Housewives of NJ"), or documentaries (like the educational History Channel type things). Anything in between just doesn't hold my interest.
18. I never take out the trash. Never. Seriously, that's man work, lol. Just like I would never mow the grass. Yeah, I may be spoiled.
19. I am actually spoiled rotten. Don't get me wrong...I do work hard. Really hard. But, I am spoiled. I can admit it, and even worse, I LIKE IT.
20. I have to remind myself to talk to people. It just doesn't come naturally to me. But once I do, I am so glad that I did. I love being social...once I remember to do it, lol.
21. I totally sneak junk food when my children aren't looking but then feed them healthy things. Yeah, I know. It's bad. I've even told them before that Reece's Peanut Butter cups are just for mommies...and they BELIEVED me. It was almost so sweet that I felt guilty...almost.
22. I believe that we can do a better job educating our children than the school system can. There. I said it. I know it's one of those things that you aren't supposed to actually admit, and it sounds "snotty", but hey, it is what it is.
23. Sometimes the upstairs of my house gets messy. Really messy. I get busy, and folding laundry sort of falls by the wayside for a few hours...er, days. I'm working on fixing that. Really, I am.
24. I am horrible at asking for help. I hate feeling like I am weak, or unable to do something on my own. It's horrible and prideful, but it's a weakness of mine. I'm a total perfectionist.
25. I'm kinda embarrassed at how easy it was to come up with this list. Lame, isn't it? Seriously though, it was pretty easy. That's probably not good. :)

Love,

Firetrucks and Curriculum!

2010-06-17T22:05:00.000-05:00

Today we had our monthly Mommy & Me meeting. The firemen and policeman came to show the children the emergency vehicles. The children all loved climbing in the firetruck! I think Mommy may have been having too much fun with the firehat!

We finally decided on our kindergarten curriculum and Jacob is so excited. He just cannot wait for it to arrive. We ordered the little boys some preschool manipulatives. We are so looking forward to the new curriculum! I was so excited looking through the future grades and seeing how we will be able to teach the boys together and yet on their separate levels. We ended up going with My Father's World. A friend recommended it after I had asked about another program. I am so glad that she did!

I am about to start a new homeschooling group for families of young children. It sounds a bit daunting, but there seems to be a gap that needs to be filled. It's something that I've been feeling a "nudge" about for quite some time, but have continued to put off. (I'm too busy, there's just too much going on, I've never done anything like that before...) But, I will always be busy, there will always be a ton going on, and I'll never have experience unless I do it. So, I am doing it!

I have been working out like crazy lately. This week a friend and I went to this crazy boot camp class and my legs are STILL angry at me, lol. I noticed, though, that the hard work is paying off. :) I have also discovered that I really enjoy working out. There's something in me that enjoys the challenge. Who knew?

Well, I am off to do a little reading and hanging out with Prince Charming before bedtime!

Love,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-06-15T10:37:00.000-05:00

Outside my window... it looks dreary and muggy. Blech...

I am thinking... Why don't people just say what they mean, and mean what they say? It's not that complicated, people.

From the learning rooms... hitting the books hard today!

I am thankful for... my amazing, awesome and fantastic husband who just celebrated his birthday!

From the kitchen... fresh bread. Not sure what else yet...Oh, and I need to make up a batch of my cleaning supplies.

I am wearing... a dark khaki suede skirt (yes, I know, suede in June sounds nuts...but it's really lightweight suede...) a brown, blue and melon paisley cami, and a light blue cardigan (yep, I'm joining SA, otherwise known as Sweaters Anonymous, any day now. )

I am reading... "Girls Just Gotta Have Clean.", oh and rock books and space books, of course. :)

I am hoping... to accomplish a good amount of work today before heading to my boot camp class at the gym- and all with an amazing amount of energy and a cheerful spirit, lol.

I am creating... a new, slimmer appearance. Well, here's hoping anyway, hahahaha.

I am praying... for wisdom.

Around the house... need to give the kitchen a good cleaning today, a little laundry, but otherwise not to much to do.

One of my favorite things... having a cup of coffee with a friend.

A few plans for the rest of the week... boot camp class tonight at the gym, school with the boys, spin class tomorrow, baking a cake for a raffle, M&M meeting on Thursday,

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

Love,

Happy Birthday Daddy!

2010-06-14T09:54:00.000-05:00

What could be better than a day to celebrate the most amazing man on Earth? We made some of his favorite things for dinner...Sticky Chicken, Macaroni and Cheese, Green Beans, and sweet tea. It's been a tradition for years now to make a carrot cake for his birthday. :)

Jacob wanted to color Daddy a Happy Birthday picture. Joshua and Joseph thought that sounded like a wonderful idea! They were all so excited that it was Daddy's birthday!

Daddy always loves homemade gifts better than anything we could buy for him, and the boys love making special things for Daddy. We made hand-print plaques. The big boys on one, and the little boys on another. The big boys each picked their favorite thing about Daddy for me to write on their hand. Jacob said, "My favorite thing about Daddy is that he does nice stuff." Joshua said, " My favorite thing about Daddy is Lions." (you just never know what Joshua will say, LOL). Even little Jamie was excited to have his hand-print drawn. Joe wanted to color his so carefully. It was just precious! Daddy loved his gift and couldn't wait to take them to put on his desk at work!

Today is a very special day. Today we celebrate the birth of a truly wonderful man. A man who dedicates his life to taking care of what he values most- his family. He loves his children so much and works every day to be the best father he can be. I could not have been blessed with a better man for my children to call "daddy". I love seeing reflections of him in each of my boys...Jacob has his wit, his charisma, his charm, his "salesman-ness" (lol), his strong personality. Joshua has his compassion and love for others. Joe has his stubbornness and strong-willed nature, his determination, his perseverance, his charm, and his common sense smartness. Jamie has his ability to stay calm and laid back, despite chaos, and his sweet nature. And of course, they all have his stunning good looks. :) Everyone always tells me how much the boys look like Daddy, and I just smile because it makes me so happy.

I am thankful to call this man my husband. I know that we have been through the wringer and then some together, and I know we will always be standing together, holding hands and ready to face anything that comes our way. I am thankful for the close relationship that we share, and I am thrilled to call him my best friend.

Happy Birthday Prince Charming! I pray we will celebrate many more to come, and that God will continue to bless you in the years to come! I love you!

Love,

The Grass is Greener...

2010-06-13T23:09:00.005-05:00

If the grass is greener on the other side, you can bet the water bill is higher.

I came across this quote earlier today and it made me snicker. It just really struck me as funny.

People seem to spend a lot of time looking at other people's lives, making judgments, wishing that they had what other people had. We look at someone else's homes, families, situations. We see things in their lives that are seemingly better than what we have, and we feel envy. What we don't see, however, is the whole picture.

When we focus on what other people have and what we do not, we fail to see the blessings in our own lives. If we only look at how gorgeous our friend's house is, we can lose site of how welcome people feel in our own home. If we whine and complain about how "so and so's" children are so well behaved, we can lose site of how our children make us laugh when we need it the most.

Often times we see the end result of things, without considering what it takes to get there. We see an immaculate house, and covet it, but aren't willing to spend all day cleaning. (wow, have I ever been guilty of that one, LOL) We see a friend who is super skinny, but aren't willing to put in the work to diet... (ouch). We see the green grass but forget that the water bill is generally higher.

God's Word tells us that coveting can lead us to feeling discontent with our own life. We can become unhappy with our own homes, our own children, our own husband, the body that God gave us, possessions, the list is endless...When we place our focus on other people's life/things, we lose focus from the blessings in our own life. It is easy then to forget to be thankful for these blessings, and can even breed resentment in our hearts. It's a slippery slope, and it all starts with a simple "longing" for that greener grass.

We also need to remember that no grass is perfectly green. We may treat for weeds, and fertilize and water, but there will still be imperfections. We are still subject to flood or drought, pests and a whole host of things. Our focus needs to be on the things that truly matter, and working diligently and doing our best with God gives us.

Contentment breeds thankfulness (and we all know a thankful heart is a happy heart :)) Discontentment breeds misery.

A couple of verses to mediate on...

"Yet true godliness with contentment is itself great wealth. After all, we brought nothing with us when we came into the world, and we can’t take anything with us when we leave it. So if we have enough food and clothing, let us be content." - 1 Timothy 6:6-8

"You shall not covet your neighbor's house; you shall not covet your neighbor's wife or his male servant or his female servant or his ox or his donkey or anything that belongs to your neighbor." Exodus 20:17

Love,

Swim Lessons!

2010-06-12T10:15:00.000-05:00

The boys had their first swim lesson today! I was amazed at how well little Joe did. He played all the games, and when it was time to practice floating on his belly and kicking his feet and arms, he took to it like a fish! I think he will be swimming in no time!

The bigger boys were a little more cautious. I think they were a little nervous because in the older class you don't go in with Mommy and Daddy. I thought that Jacob would struggle more, as he tends to be very hesitant if he doesn't feel confident, but he actually did well. Joshua was reluctant to get in the water without us with him. He spent most of the time on the steps, but at least he was in the water, and knowing him he was watching and observing everything closely.

Little Joe did so well, and had such a good attitude that he got a special treat of icecream. Boys was he excited about that!

Hugs,

Summer Reading Celebration!

2010-06-09T16:28:00.000-05:00

We had a busy day today! This morning we went to the gym for spin class, but Joe just didn't want to go in his class without me, so I ended up staying with him.

After the gym we went to make a Mary Kay delivery and play in the park. I was excited to see how close this park is to Rick's work. It would be nice to meet there for lunch...

Jacob was having fun playing with another little boy and Joshua really wanted to play on the teeter totter, so he decided to play with one of his bestest of friends: nappity nap-nap. It was the cutest thing. He put "nap" on one seat, and even told him to hold on to the handles. He giggled and chattered and had the best of time playing with his nap!

After the playground we went to the Summer Reading kick-off celebration. I was amazed at how many people were there! We made frog hats and had ice cream and listened to Brazilian music and celebrated a love for reading.

The boys were just plain tuckered out by the time we arrived home! While the little boys napped, Jacob asked if he could read his Bible Friends books. I love watching him look at the books and see how intently he listens to the stories on the cds. He pays such close attention!

Love,

Wordless Wednesday- Books!

2010-06-09T02:53:00.000-05:00

Hugs,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-06-08T21:52:00.000-05:00

Outside my window... kinda scary looking stormy sky.

I am thinking... Wowza...

From the learning rooms... reading lots and lots of books on rocks and space!

I am thankful for... wow. So much to be thankful for! I am thankful for my amazing friends. I am so blessed by the wonderful ladies in my life. Love you!

From the kitchen... soup and sandwiches.

I am wearing... Khaki pinstriped pants (hmmm, thinking I must like pinstripes) pink and cream floral blouse layered over a white cami.

I am reading... "Girls Just Gotta Have Clean". Wow, I am such a geek.

I am hoping... that my stress level goes down and my energy level goes back up. Haha.

I am creating... thank you cards

I am praying... for so, so many things.

Around the house... the sounds of giggly boys playing together

One of my favorite things... singing hymns with my boys. Awesomeness.

A few plans for the rest of the week... spin class tomorrow, Summer reading kick-off at the park, lunch with friends, playdate/business meeting, Mary Kay meeting, playdate...

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

Love,

It Is What It Is...

2010-06-08T17:32:00.000-05:00

"It is what it is" is a favorite saying of my darling husband. He says it all the time. It kinda drives me crazy, to be perfectly honest. Sometimes I don't like that answer, and I want to understand why things are what they are. Just saying that they are isn't enough- if ya know what I mean.

But sometimes things just are what they are. There really isn't a better answer. It's sort of like "life's not fair". My dad used to say that one, and yep, it drove me crazy, too.

It is what it is...I think that about sums up my life right now. There are so many things about my life that I would not change, and then, there are things that I would give just about anything to change.

It is what it is...There are some people who will love me no matter what I do, and who will stand by me through thick and thin. There are people who will cheer me on when I try new things, or have accomplishments in my life. There are people who will just think I am awesome. There are also people who will hate me and dislike everything I do, despite my best efforts. There are people who will look for fault in all that I do. People who will only see my shortcomings, or things they do not like. There are people who will always judge my intentions in every little thing that I do. As a dear friend reminded me today, some people will just never see my heart- and there isn't a damn thing I can do to change that.

It is what it is...My life isn't perfect, and there are heartbreaks that will never be mended. There is a part of my heart that will likely never be whole.

It is what it is...I have a fantastic life, beautiful children, and a wonderful husband. Some people are very happy for me and choose to be a part of our lives. Some people do not. It just is what it is.

It is what it is...This is my life. I don't have any control over other people's emotions. I accept it and move on. I am thrilled that some people choose to be a part of our lives. I love my friends and family to pieces. For those who choose not to love me, I understand, I forgive you, and I choose to love you anyway. You don't have to accept it- that's completely your choice.

To those who choose not to be a part of my life I thought you would want to know that I'm happy. My life is what it is- and that's not such a bad thing.

With Love,

Mocha Frozen Fusion

2010-06-05T11:12:00.000-05:00

The new drink maker thing we ordered arrived and we decided that we just had to try it out! We love frozen coffee drinks, so just had to try making them ourselves. :)

Ingredients:

1/2 c. strong coffee (is there any other kind?!?!?!)

3/4 c. milk

2 tbsp. chocolate syrup

1/2 tsp. sugar

1 c. ice

Directions:

Add all ingredients into your blender type machine and use long pulses until smooth.

Makes approx. 2 10oz cups.

Yummy!

Hugs,

Story Time with Daddy

2010-06-03T21:53:00.000-05:00

I don't know if anything could possibly be as adorable as watching the boys listen intently as Daddy reads to them. Joshua was so super excited to pick out his "Rock book". He couldn't wait to show Daddy the picture of the underwater rocks!

Jamie gets so excited whenever the brothers get excited. He may not know why he is jumping, but boy is he jumping!

Who knew that firetrucks and rescue vehicles could be so fun?

The boys want to read, read, read so they can color in the circles on their summer reading charts. Jacob really wants to earn that art set.

Love,

A Response to "Anonymous"

2010-06-03T15:19:00.000-05:00

I have had a lot on my mind lately. There is this person out there, someone I used to know, who seems intent on trying to make me feel as if I do not deserve the life that I have. Truthfully, I feel more sad for this person than anything else. I find it sad that anyone would be so preoccupied with someone's life, when they don't even know me at this point. It is sad that they cannot be content enough with their own life to just accept that mine is happy. If they truly believe that if something horrific happens in your life that you are never allowed happiness, then my heart breaks for them. They will surely face a difficult life with that sort of outlook.

Here is my response to you, Anonymous:

I have a fantastic life. I don't feel guilty that God has chosen to bless my life in the ways that He has. I feel grateful.

My life is what it is. Years ago, when tragedy struck, I had two choices. 1. Allow horrible circumstances to destroy my life at such a young age. 2. Rebuild my life and make the best of bad circumstances. I chose the second. My life has turned out wonderfully. I took imperfect circumstances and chose to be happy anyway.

The nice thing about my life is that it is MY life. It doesn't have to work for you. You don't have to like it. You don't have to care about me, you don't have to agree with me, and you don't get to be involved.

You can continue to send anonymous messages (although, is it really so anonymous if I know who you are?) but it will not change anything. My friends know that my life has not been perfect. Those who need to know the details, do.

You aren't going to intimidate me into feeling bad about my life. A person can say whatever they would like, but the truth of how you live always shows itself in the fruit. I don't spend my time worrying about whether or not you approve. I spend my time raising my family.

You can choose to continue to harass me. Or you can choose to act like an adult. It's your decision.

Pet Show and Tell at the Library

2010-06-03T12:35:00.005-05:00

This morning we went to the Pet Show and Tell at our local library. It was fun to see the pets (both real and stuffed0 that people brought. I didn't realize you could bring stuffed animals or we would have brought the boys' favorites. Oh well, now we know for next time, lol.

The boys enjoyed the pet show, but were really excited to go inside and look at books. They had been talking all week about wanting to check out books on rocks, and space, and the sun. One of their favorite things to do is to sit at the tables with a big stack of books!

While we were there we enrolled in the summer reading program. Jacob is so excited to earn new books!

Boys will be boys! It still cracks me up that little Joe can pin Jacob down. He may be little, but he sure is scrappy!

This afternoon I think I will do a little housework and Pilates, and then perhaps spend a little time working in my office. It's a gorgeous day outside...maybe we should go swimming later. :)

Love,

Thankful Thursday

2010-06-02T23:29:00.003-05:00

I love "Thankful Thursdays". I know that I have said this before, but I just love the reminder to take a step back and remember how much we have to be thankful for.

I am always thankful for my friends, but over the past couple of weeks I have had some wonderful reminders of why. I am thankful for the support that I receive from them and for the support that I am able to give back to them. I am thankful for the friends who make me laugh when I am needing it most. (you know who you are ;)). I am thankful for the encouragement they give when I feel discouraged. I am so thankful for the patience they have with me, I know I can be a bit of a trip at times! I am thankful for those friends that I have that I know will stand by my side no matter what...the friends that see my heart in everything that I do.

I am incredibly thankful for the best of friends that a girl could ask for. For the man that has stood by my side for seven years, through the worst of imaginable, and through the best. The man that has encouraged me to grow and to find "myself" when I felt the need to. The man who has dreamed with me, cried with me, rejoiced with me and laughed with me. The man who was there with me when my life was shattered into a million pieces, and who then helped me put the pieces back together again into something rather wonderful.

I am thankful for the four little boys who fill my days with joy, laughter, frustrations, celebrations, and so much more. I am thankful for the precious gift from God that they are. I am thankful for the privilege of teaching them, and watching them learn. I am thankful for every "light bulb" moment, every silly song, and every cuddle.

I am thankful for the amazing life that I have. I am thankful for a God who loves me despite my imperfections. I know that everything that I have has come from Him.

I know how much I have to be thankful for. There isn't a minute that goes by that I am not aware of that.

Love,

Wordless Wednesday- Strongman Joe!

2010-06-02T02:19:00.001-05:00

Love,

A Cake to Die For...

2010-06-01T22:39:00.001-05:00

...and you might actually keel over after a piece! This cake could definitely be considered over indulgent! Chocolate cake with caramel frosting wrapped in Kit-Kat bars and topped with peanut M&M's. Pure delight!

Rick's work is having a "Taco Wednesday" tomorrow and he volunteered to bring the dessert. I wonder how much work they will be getting done after this bad boy...

Love,

Dear "Anonymous"

2010-06-01T22:10:00.003-05:00

Dear Anonymous,
It's pretty sad to leave anonymous hateful comments on someones blog. Instead of hiding behind anonymity, why not grow up and email me directly? My email address mellyelizabeth@proverbs31homemaking.com. I'm not hiding. Why are you?

***Update*** Just a quick clarification- The person this was intended for knows who they are. I didn't want any of my friends who post under "anonymous" to mistakenly believe that I am upset with them. If your comment is published on my blog, I am not referring to you. :) Thanks!

A Pretty Cake

2010-06-01T14:54:00.001-05:00

I had the urge to bake a cake last night, so I thought I would try out this cute idea I had seen a while back and take it to the Mommy and Me board meeting at the playground. :)

It's a french vanilla cake with milk chocolate frosting, french vanilla rolled wafers, hand dipped chocolate covered strawberries and fresh blackberries. Yummy!

Love,

Summer Fun in the Pool!

2010-05-30T14:26:00.003-05:00

I think that Joshua will be swimming before we know it! He just loves being in the pool. He thought this boat was just the coolest!

Jacob is loving the pool as well. It's just too much fun! Joe loves "floating!"

We enjoyed a nice picnic lunch on the patio. Daddy worked on the landscaping while the boys and I played and enjoyed dancing to music together. What fun times!

I think we will be spending all summer in the pool!

Hugs,

First Swim of the Summer!

2010-05-29T13:59:00.002-05:00

The floats are ready, the sun is shining, and the pool looks refreshingly beautiful. I suppose that means that it is time to swim!

Little Jamie wasn't entirely sure about the cold water, but he soon realized that it was rather nice!

Joe was quite the little fish- er- water monkey! He LOVED floating around in his little boat, and got rather good at kicking his feet to get around the pool.

I have never been much of an "outside" girl, but I think I am going to really enjoy having the pool. I had no idea that floating around on a raft could be THAT relaxing.

The big boys did a great job kicking around in their "fish rings'. Joshua seemed to be a natural at swimming! Jacob took a little practice, but had a blast. They had so much fun playing in the water together.

Joe had a blast playing with Daddy. He loved throwing his "rockets" into the water for Daddy to dive and get. What a fun game!

Hugs,

Getting Ready to Swim!

2010-05-29T13:49:00.000-05:00

The wait is over and summer is finally here. The boys were sooooo excited to go swimming! They were giddy over watching Daddy blow up the pool toys and floats, and couldn't wait to get into their swim trunks.

They eagerly watched as Daddy skimmed the pool. "Is it time? Is it time yet?"

The brothers were so excited that it would be Jamie's first time in the pool!

Let's go swimming!

Love,

You Can Have Your Cake AND Eat It Too!

2010-05-28T10:58:00.001-05:00

I haven't written much lately aside from tidbits of our days. I suppose that I was taking a bit of a break, taking some time to sort through my own thoughts and feelings. Now, I feel ready to do some real writing. I have accepted the fact that sometimes people just aren't going to like what I have to say, and sometimes...they will.

I was talking to a friend the other day, and she told me that she read my blog before actually meeting me in person. The thing that stood out to her was a sense of confidence. Confidence in the way I live my life, confidence in how we are raising our children, confidence in who I am. I realize that she was right...I did have a sense of confidence. Unfortunately though, I also have a very sensitive nature about me. A few snide comments here, a few jabs at me there, and suddenly, that confidence started to wane.

For some reason I started listening to those people who were telling me that I couldn't be a conservative Christian homeschooling mom of four AND love funky shoes. I can't strive to teach my children strong values AND enjoy listening to my "booty" music. For some reason, there were people trying to make me feel guilty for spending time on things like dyeing my hair, going to a tanning bed, shopping, and playing with outfits. Why does being a mother mean that I shouldn't enjoy these things?

I have always been the type of girl who was willing to be "different". When I was growing up, I didn't care what clique people belonged to, I had friends all over the social map. Somehow though, as I grew older, my need to feel like I was following a set of unwritten rules took control. I started to really feel like I was doing something wrong for wanting to feel pretty, for enjoying the company of friends who are very different than me, for enjoying my life.

I think that a person can go too far...on either side. If you spend ALL of your time caring about how you look, then of course, there's no time left for taking care of others. But, if you spend NO time taking care of yourself, you will eventually run out of yourself to give. People have different ways of "recharging", and for me, I like to feel pretty.

I enjoy clothes and shoes and shopping and makeup and feeling pretty. I love looking through fashion magazines and putting together outfits on sites like Polyvore. I love talking about all of that. I enjoy working out and fixing my hair and I love hanging out with girlfriends. I love having a ridiculous amount of clothing and shoes and jewelry- and I am not going to feel guilty about that. My first priority is my family, and we don't go into debt with buying these things, and frankly, it makes me happy.

I may be a mommy-fashionista, but I still put the majority of my focus on raising my family. I homeschool my children using a conservative Christian curriculum, and I do it in four inch heels. I teach my children to memorize Scripture verses and I do it with a 5 carat diamond on my finger. My boys do their chores and learn to be helpful and kind to one another, and they do it with their hair gelled. I hug and kiss on my babies and I do it with my dyed blonde hair. I sing to my children and read them stories and play with them on the playground, and I do it while carrying a designer handbag. That's me, and you don't have to like it if you don't want to.

I'm tired of being judged about this. I find it particularly frustrating because I don't judge others for feeling differently. Some of the dearest people I know are extremely conservative in the way that they dress and live their lives, and I love talking with them, reading their writings, and feel so encouraged by the shared values that we have. I have friends who don't homeschool, who don't share the same beliefs that I do, and yet I find myself so encouraged by them. I don't feel the need to judge them for being different than me. I LOVE that we have differences. My life would be so boring if I spent all of my time in a room full of "Mellys". (wow, that actually kinda sounds scary...)

Maybe it's from getting older, maybe it's just learning from life experience, but either way I have discovered that I can actually have my cake and eat it too. I can be a conservative Christian homeschooling mom of four, who dresses like a fashionista, has a social life, sells pink makeup, goes to the gym, takes care of her home, adores her husband, feels passionately about raising her family and loving every minute of this life.

With Love,

Joe and His Baby

2010-05-14T16:54:00.000-05:00

I love watching little Joe take care of his baby. He is just the sweetest! The cutest part to me though, is when he took a wipe to clean baby's head, lol.

Love,

Paparazzi Joe and Other Such Things

2010-05-13T12:23:00.000-05:00

The difference between yesterday and today is like night and day. Suddenly my children are back to their usual charming selves. Perhaps there was just something in the air?

Earlier Joe grabbed the bottle and went over and started feeding Jamie in his swing, lol. Jamie didn't seem to mind, I think he thought that it was rather funny.

These two have become awfully "chummy" lately. I wonder if sharing a room has brought them closer together? Or maybe it is that Jamie is getting older and more interactive? Either way, I am loving it. Joe has always felt a little left out with the older two. (it's kinda hard when your two older bros are best friends!) Joe loves playing with Jamie, and Jamie adores Joe. I love to hear them giggling together!

One of the greatest things about homeschooling is that you can do it anywhere, and anytime. I love curling up with a pile of boys and a pile of books. :) Joshua is really enjoying this book about polar bears. There is a picture on the back of the book of a man hugging a baby polar bear. Joshua said "Look, the baby bear has a friend!"

Who needs paparazzi when you have a 2 yr old??? Joe has been following me around with a toy camera, "taking pictures" of me making coffee, changing diapers, starting a load of laundry, going to the potty, talking on the phone... There's something about being 2 that makes it endearing when you follow mommy around EVERYWHERE. I can't help but to want to hug this baby!

Hugs and Kisses,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-05-12T17:21:00.000-05:00

Outside my window... a Spring thunderstorm!

I am thinking... wouldn't you like to know? ;)

From the learning rooms... cutting and gluing, practicing writing 2's and 3's.

I am thankful for... the amazing life that I am blessed with! God is so good to me!

From the kitchen... steaks! YUM!

I am wearing... Brown trousers with cream and pink pinstriping. Cream three quarter sleeved sweater, Brown and turquoise necklace and earrings (it's super cute!) and blue argyle socks (my feet were cold!)

I am reading... Frumpy to Foxy in 15 Minutes

I am hoping... that Prince Charming will bring me a coke on his way home.

I am creating... new relationships.

I am praying... for wisdom and guidance.

Around the house... laundry, laundry and laundry. Did I mention laundry?

One of my favorite things... Listening to this baby babble at me.

A few plans for the rest of the week... manicure, Mary Kay meeting, a Girl's Night with ladies from Sunday School, having pictures taken by a friend, doctor's appointments...

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

Love,

It's Been a Day!

2010-05-12T16:38:00.000-05:00

Today has been a bit of a day... The boys have been in an attitude "funk" lately, and it has been exhausting! But today I was ready to get them back on track. We have gotten away from following a schedule (which has always worked so well for us) and I think that is causing a problem for them.

Jamie is LOVING solid foods. His new favorite is strawberry, apples and bananas! I am amazed by how much he eats. I joke about not needing a bib because he doesn't want to miss any little bit of food, lol.

Jamie loves playing with his favorite playmate. I just can't believe how big he is getting.

We were supposed to go have pictures taken by a friend today, but decided to reschedule for tomorrow.

Love,

School and Bookstores and What-not

2010-05-11T16:39:00.003-05:00

This morning we met a friend over at Barnes and Nobles so the children could play with the Thomas the Tank Engine train set. The boys had a great time, and I certainly enjoyed my skinny mocha and browsing through their selection of planners. It was a lovely morning, until some little Bear threw a tantrum about leaving. It was lovely...I had to carry him out like a football while attempting to push a stroller and walk with the other two boys. :)

So then I go and get the boys into the car, and end up locking myself in the back of the Expedition for the SECOND time. (yes, you read that right...I have done this TWICE). Talk about fun, lol. I had to climb (ever so UN-gracefully) into the front in my heels. At least I can laugh at myself...

The day did improve though. We came home and worked on the day's school work. Jacob had such a great time practicing his gluing and cutting skills.

And, of course, every day is brighter when Prince Charming brings you flowers. These flowers just look so bright and happy!

Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-05-05T06:16:00.001-05:00

Story Time at the Library!

2010-04-29T13:26:00.001-05:00

Today story time was all about ANTS!!!!! They read stories about ants, marched around as ants with tambourines and rhythm sticks, and even made an ants in the pants craft!

Joshua particularly loves the music part of story time. Joe enjoyed kinda sitting back and watching everyone else.

I love seeing the boys walk together holding hands...

...it's just the perfect image of "brotherhood"...

Love,

Lunch with Friends

2010-04-28T13:49:00.000-05:00

We went to Taco Bueno to have lunch with friends. They have 99 cent kid's meals on Wednesdays- and you just can't beat that! The boys always have too much fun when we get together. Joe thought it was rather hilarious to feed his friend cinnamon chips. I think by the time lunch was over, we had cinnamon sugar just about everywhere!

Hugs,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-04-28T06:14:00.001-05:00

Love,

The Playroom!

2010-04-24T22:59:00.000-05:00

The playroom ended up very different than I had planned. Somehow, the boys (ah-hem, and Daddy ;)) convinced me that they needed a Cars themed playroom, LOL.

We chose "Blue Lightening" for the wall color. I loved that it was so vibrant and a very "happy" color- which in my mind is perfect for a playroom!

We ended up using my old sewing cart in the playroom for the mice's (guinea pigs) home. I was happy that it found a new purpose.

The boys love the Cars decals.

They were very excited for their new race car rug. How fun is that!

I plan to add a red valance to finish it off. I'm just happy to be able to make the boys happy with a playroom that they love!

Love,

The Big Boys' Room!

2010-04-24T22:48:00.000-05:00

I have always really liked the bedding and decoratives we have for the big boys, so creating a room around them was so much fun!

I wanted to use bold, rich colors to set the tone. Since red is Jacob's favorite color, I wanted to be sure it was a main color in the room. I liked this brown color because it just seemed like the perfect "lodge" feel. We chose "Ironwood" and " Red Hot" for the wall colors. The boys especially loved the foam paw prints and bears.

The only thing left to do is to add a small chair in the corner to finish off the reading area. Jacob loves his special "dog shelf" for his prized stuffed animals.

Joshua (Bear) loves that his room is bear themed.

Love,

The Little Boys' Room!

2010-04-24T22:34:00.000-05:00

Here is Joe's bed. Oh he was so excited to have his new room! The smile on his face was priceless!!! One of his favorite things to do is sit and look out of the window, so we put his horse where he would have a good view!

Joe was excited to be sharing his new room with his little brother, Jamie. Jamie was pretty excited, too.

I wanted to do something a little creative with the paint colors. We chose "Blue Pearl" and "Cucumber Green" for the walls. We used them on opposing walls to add more interest. Our nursery theme is "Vintage Firetruck" by Wendy Bellissimo.

The little boys love their new space, and that really makes me happy. :)

Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-04-21T06:08:00.001-05:00

Love,

Play Date at the Park

2010-04-19T13:26:00.000-05:00

We went to a playdate at the local park with friends today. What a gorgeous day for playing at the playground!

After playing, the boys were BEGGING to go to the library, so we decided to go have lunch at McDonald's before heading to look at books. The local McDonald's is actually a nice place to have lunch. I've never been one to think about eating inside of a fast food place, but apparently it's rather common here! They have the nicest lady that works the dining room, the boys thought she was sweet. Jamie even got to try his first french dry...he liked it quite a bit!!!

We went to the library and checked out a humongous stack of books. I love that my boys love the library! I think they would have stayed all day if we could have! Jacob mentioned the idea of bringing school work to work on it there...I think it's a rather good idea!

Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-04-14T14:24:00.000-05:00

Love,

A Lovely, Sunshiny Day!

2010-04-13T13:31:00.001-05:00

We are having a lovely day today. How could we not with such beautiful weather?!

The boys had a great day of school today. Jacob was very eager and kept wanting to do "just one more page". Music to a teacher's ear!

Little Jamie loves to watch his brothers work at the table. I think he is in a hurry to be as big as them!

My lovely Prince Charming's bought me these pretty flowers while grocery shopping on Saturday. They are just so thoughtful!

After schoolwork was finished we decided to head outside and enjoy the sunshine. The boys loved blowing bubbles together! Joe squeeled in delight! Joshua was so happy to be sharing the bubbles with the creatures that live in the woods behind us. Jacob loved helping his brothers with blowing the bubbles. I think Jamie just enjoyed getting to be in the sunshine and watching the brothers, lol!

With Love,

Playing at the Park with Daddy

2010-04-11T18:04:00.000-05:00

While I was at the MOPS meeting, Daddy decided to take the boys to the park to play. Jacob showed Joe how to climb up and go down the slide. The first time Joe was a little cautious, but once he got the hang of it, he was flying down at full speed! Jamie LOVED watching his brothers from the bottom of the slide!

The boys (and Daddy) all had a blast!

Hugs,

My Big Boy!

2010-04-11T17:42:00.000-05:00

Jamie tried applesauce today for the first time! It was a big hit! I'm thinking this boy is going to really like eating...

Love,

Random Saturday Pictures

2010-04-06T17:27:00.000-05:00

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE this picture of Jacob and Joe. I totally need to have that one framed!

Is that little Joe, "reading" to Jamie? Yes it is! He sure loves being a big brother to Jamie.

Jacob loves taking picture of Mommy. I think it's so cute how he's developed an interest in photography.

First Solid Foods

2010-04-06T16:16:00.001-05:00

Baby Jamie had his first taste of cereal today! We knew it was past time, lol. He's been eyeing our food for quite some time now...

Jamie decided he definitely likes eating food!

Love,

Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-04-06T13:57:00.001-05:00

Outside my window... the sites and smells of Spring! Gorgeous!

I am thinking... "Mmmm, tacos..."

From the learning rooms... Discussions on why it is so important to set a good example. Practice counting objects, Discussions of Easter.

I am thankful for... the amazing life that I am blessed with! God is so good to me!

From the kitchen... my kitchen has been sadly neglected this week...

I am wearing... Chocolate brown slacks with plaid detailing in them, a rose and cream floral top and a taupe cardigan. Note to self- STOP wearing boring outfits on Tuesdays!

I am reading... all sorts of instructional type things on skin care. Yup, I'm a dork.

I am hoping... to gain the self confidence that I desire.

I am creating... a new business for myself.

I am praying... for peace as it feels like my world is changing so much these days.

Around the house... doing some major organizing work in the bedrooms. Preparing to paint the upstairs soon.

One of my favorite things... Seeing what an amazing father my husband is.

A few plans for the rest of the week...church tomorrow, MOPS meeting on Thursday, meeting friends for coffee on Friday, manicure, then church on Sunday.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

My little photographer took this picture Saturday. I love that he can take pictures of Rick and I together.

Love,

Not Me Monday

2010-04-05T03:27:00.001-05:00

It has been a while since I have done one of these, but I figure it's about time, LOL!.

1. I did not get so paranoid and in a total panic about getting wrinkles. I did not go on and on about how I am going to need Botox or I will look like a shriveled prune. I did not feel like I was literally on the verge of tears about these wrinkles.
2. My oldest child did not then tell me, "You can still go to the park even if you have wrinkles" in his serious and sympathetic tone.
3. I did not just send my husband to McDonalds at 9 o'clock at night on Easter Sunday.
4. I am not nervous to hold my first Mary Kay skin care class because I totally confident in my ablities.
5. I am not about to eat said McDonalds since I am on a diet.

Happy Monday!,

Pictures From Our Week

2010-04-03T00:28:00.004-05:00

Palm Sunday

Mommy & Me Easter Party

The boys thought meeting the Easter bunny was, well, "interesting". They really weren't sure what to think at first, lol. Jacob immediately understood the concept of it being a man in a costume. Joshua wanted me to explain it to him, and being he has such a literal mind, I thought it best to explain it to him as it is. Joe was TERRIFIED of it! (which is why I am holding him as well as Jamie, lol). Jamie loves everyone- so he was fine :).

The boys had a blast with the egg hunt! Joe was a little hesitant at first, but once he understood the concept, he was on it! Jacob, of course, was planning out his strategy for getting the most eggs. And Joshua was just as interested in talking to the babies and playing with the grass- but at least he had fun!

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-31T00:02:00.003-05:00

Playing is such hard work, and just so exhausting!

Love,

Pink Saturday

2010-03-27T00:15:00.000-05:00

It's been awhile since I have done a "Pink Saturday" post, but these flowers that Jacob and Daddy gave to me re-inspired me!

It looks like they are in a pink vase- but they are not! The vase is clear, but the WATER is pink. How cool is that? The flowers had a little packet of the stuff to keep them fresh longer, and it turned the water pink. Love it! It looks a little orangey-pink in the picture, but in person it's actually just pink.

I love how thoughtful the gentlemen in my family are! Jacob loves to bring me flowers, and I love knowing that he thought of me. (and of course, Rick is just the sweetest man on earth who also loves to bring me flowers ;))

With Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-24T04:23:00.000-05:00

Love,

Simple Woman's Daybook

2010-03-23T16:12:00.000-05:00

Outside my window... it looks like Spring!

I am thinking... so much to do, so little time!

From the learning rooms...I was amazed to hear little Joe counting to ten!!!

I am thankful for...my home, my family, new friends, living what feels like my dream life.

From the kitchen... made laundry soap, now I need to figure out dinner...

I am wearing... olive pants, a purple-ish top, and brown cardigan (wow, that sounds boring, but I guess it's one of those outfits that doesn't describe well, lol)

I am reading... um, um, um....

I am hoping... to find an amazing source of energy and motivation hiding somewhere...

I am creating... a clean and organized home, lol.

I am praying... for peace as it feels like my world is changing so much these days.

Around the house...busy days! It seems like there is always so much to do and not nearly enough time, lol.

One of my favorite things...drinking coffee in silence before waking up the boys.

A few plans for the rest of the week...church tomorrow, a picnic playdate with a friend, possibly attending a career conference, and I think that's about all that's set in stone at this point.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

With Love,

Frugal Friday- With an Added Bonus

2010-03-19T22:12:00.000-05:00

This weeks Frugal Friday tip comes with the added bonus of a Child Training Tip!

We were having an issue with food being wasted. A child would decide they didn't want leftover spaghetti, or they would ask for bowl after bowl of cereal...with half of it ending up on the floor. My husband does not like to waste food, so we decided to come up with a solution. We wanted to teach our children to not waste our food resources, and we also wanted to teach them to be obedient, even in things they didn't really want to...

So, we instituted a new rule. If you do not eat it, then it is saved and served again to you for the next meal. If you throw it on the floor, you will put it back on your plate. After a day of spaghetti for breakfast, our food wasting problem was solved.

I want to add, on a side note, that we are not unreasonable about this. If it is something that a child has tried and just legitimately do not like, we do not make them eat it. The reason we instituted this was that they were wasting things that they did in fact like, simply out of stubbornness. (I don't want oatmeal today...)

Hugs,

Time For a Change!

2010-03-18T20:13:00.003-05:00

There have been so many changes taking place in my life, so I felt that it was time for a change on my blog as well!

I have spent my entire life feeling shy, preferring to stay on the sidelines, content with being quiet. Then one day, a part of me woke up. This part of me that enjoys being social, enjoys bright colors, and enjoys facing new challenges. I figured out that I have spent my entire life afraid of stepping out.

A few months ago, I attended a time management seminar at our local library. It was a wonderful experience. For some reason, I felt comfortable. I felt knowledgeable about the subject, and found myself actually speaking in front of this group of people. I was shocked and amazed. I left the seminar and found that my confidence level was through the roof. This opened my eyes to something that shocked me...Maybe I'm not shy, I'm just scared!

Scared of what, you might ask...Scare of succeeding, scared of becoming something more than the shy, quiet girl I'd always been. Scared of admitting that I like bright pink, and not just pale pink. Honestly, there probably wasn't much of anything that DIDN'T scare me.

Learning that little fact has changed my life. It's not that I wasn't happy before, because I was. But, I feel like I am growing into myself, if that makes any sense- and that's a wonderful feeling.

There's a whole world of potential out there, that I didn't even know existed. I am so incredibly excited to discover it!

With Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-17T22:11:00.000-05:00

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-03-16T15:33:00.001-05:00

Outside my window... drab and dreary...it sure doesn't LOOK like Spring is almost here!

I am thinking... How much I love my life!

From the learning rooms...learning memory verse, discussing generosity, writing alphabet letters...

I am thankful for...opportunities ahead of me, my supportive family...OH, and my new Expedition!

From the kitchen... Steak and veggies. Yummmmm.

I am wearing... a taupe skirt with pink flowers, brown cami, and a lace jacket.

I am reading... um, um, um....

I am hoping... to get over this cold. :(

I am creating... a new career selling Mary Kay!

I am praying... for a dear friend who has a lot going on.

Around the house... little boys sleeping, laundry going, and a sleepy Mommy.

One of my favorite things...cuddling with my boys :)

A few plans for the rest of the week... a St. Patrick's party tomorrow, church, playing Bunco with the ladies and a girl's night out...

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

With Love,

Frugal Friday

2010-03-12T22:04:00.000-06:00

One major thing that we do to be frugal, is buying in bulk. Not everything that is sold in bulk is a good deal, so definitely pay attention to the price per unit. We have found that in general, most staples are cheaper when purchased in larger quantities (flour, sugar, rice...)

Another added benefit to buying in bulk is convenience! It is nice to have things on hand, and I rarely worry about running out of my pantry staples.

Hugs,

Wordless Wednesday- School Days

2010-03-10T21:59:00.000-06:00

Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-03-03T12:21:00.000-06:00

Hugs,

All Stacked Up!

2010-03-01T21:15:00.000-06:00

Love.

Frugal Friday

2010-02-26T21:54:00.000-06:00

This weeks Frugal Friday Tip...Save your bacon grease! I use the grease for cooking. It may not be the healthiest choice, but it sure does add a nice flavor!

Happy Birthday Bear!

2010-02-25T21:30:00.000-06:00

Oh my Bear. You can't help but to love Joshua. He has an innocence and sweetness that just can't be matched. He has this amazing little mind, sometimes I am blown away by his brightness. I love his concrete way of looking at things.

I love when he is goofy and shares his silly little giggle with us. I love how he can be so blissfully oblivious.

I love his seriousness. His "little professor" look that he gets when he wants to do his best at something.

I love how he comes up to me throughout the day and says, "Holda me, Mommy" or "Kissame, Mommy. Kissame right here. (as he points to his head)". I love how he would sit cuddled up in my lap for as long as I would sit there. I love that he still wants me to rock him like a baby, and sing softly to him.

I love how he looks up to Jacob, like he is the most amazing thing he has ever seen.

And I love how he is so gentle towards little babies. How he always stops to talk to a baby and uses his little sweet voice.

I love that he has no idea that he's not ACTUALLY a bear...

Love,

Happy Birthday Little Joe!

2010-02-25T21:19:00.000-06:00

My precious little Joe is now two years old! He is such a special little monkey. I've never seen so much spunk and personality packed into one little firecracker! He is such a determined little guy, so independent and yet, still so happy to be my baby. I love the sparkle in his eye, and the spunky smile, the mischievous sense of humor he has.

Every morning, when I go to wake him up, he greets me with the sweetest smile, the biggest hug, and a kiss. He is always so happy to see me.

I love my little Joe!

Love,

Pictures From Around Our Home

2010-02-25T21:03:00.000-06:00

Jacob has been really enjoying playdough lately...especially mixing the colors to make beautiful creations!

Jamie discovered the exersaucer this week. He is getting so playful!

Joe loves playing with the food from their new kitchen.

Jacob has discovered that he really enjoys taking pictures. He was just so giddy over taking this one of his favorite muse...Mommy!
Jacob took this picture of Baby Jamie as well. I think he's getting rather good with a camera!

Love,

My Beautiful Boys

2010-02-25T21:00:00.000-06:00

Pax Christi,

Jacob and His Baby Brother

2010-02-25T20:55:00.000-06:00

It is so precious to me to see the bond between brothers. I love seeing how Jamie looks up to his big brother!

Love,

Breadmaking with Melly

2010-02-25T20:51:00.001-06:00

This Saturday we did a breadmaking class with a mommy group that I am part of. It was so much fun getting to know the other moms!

Pax Christi,

Happy Birthday Mommy!

2010-02-25T20:43:00.000-06:00

My wonderful Prince Charmings did a lovely job of making my birthday feel special! As is a tradition for my birthday, we had cheesecake. (with three birthdays in a week we can tend to get a little tired of cake, lol) Prince Jacob loved that I wore a tiara...he said I should wear one every day :).

Love,

Let's Play Kitchen with Mommy!

2010-02-25T20:39:00.000-06:00

Hugs,

Let Us Eat Cake!

2010-02-25T20:18:00.000-06:00

Happy Birthday, dear brothers! Happy Birthday to you!

Bear likes cake!!!!

Joe, on the other hand...he was just not so sure at first, lol.

What a wonderful birthday day!

Love,

Happy Birthday Joshua and Joseph!

2010-02-25T19:52:00.000-06:00

This year we decided to celebrate the "brothers" birthdays together. My little Bear turned three, and baby Monkey turned two! It was especially neat to see them excited for each other to be having a birthday celebration.

Daddy grilled the most delicious steaks EVER for dinner!

Joshua's Lightening McQueen cake.

Joseph's Thomas cake.

The "brothers" birthday gift.

The boys couldn't wait to "cook" up a wonderful meal! :)

Hugs and Blessings,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-02-24T12:19:00.000-06:00

Love,

Thankful Thursday

2010-02-18T13:10:00.000-06:00

Thankful Thursday...isn't it funny how a reminder comes along to be thankful, just when it is needed? I love how God works. I am increasingly convinced that He has quite the sense of humor...

Today I am thankful for stinky diapers. Really. Why? Because without the precious blessings that created them, there would not be the gross, awful, stinky mess.

Without them, there would be no messes to clean up, no diapers to change, and no grubby hands to clean.

I am thankful for my son, who when he saw that I had a plastic bag with gross diapers inside, said, "I would be happy to take that for you." I sure love that boy.

I am thankful for the mountain of laundry to wash, because it means that we are blessed with an abundance of clothes to keep us warm.

I am thankful for a sink full of dishes, because it means that a yummy meal was enjoyed.

I am thankful for a cranky baby who in 30 seconds will be smiling sweetly at me and be thrilled to receive hundreds of kisses.

And I am thankful for the encouragement I receive from my friends who are so patient with me even when I am utterly ridiculous.

"Because a thankful heart, is a happy heart. I'm glad for what I have, that's an easy way to start. For the love that He shares, cuz He listens to our prayers. That's why I say 'thanks' every day!"

Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-02-17T12:17:00.000-06:00

Love,

Learning Scriptures and Tiny Violins

2010-02-16T12:59:00.000-06:00

The boys have really surprised me with how well they are retaining the memory verses that they have learned! It is so precious to me to hear them quoting God's Word. :)

The boys have been really enjoying their new violins. I love how excited they are about wanting to learn. We ordered a lesson book that teaches children to read music using color coding. We figured that was right up our alley, LOL. I look forward to being able to share video of them playing some day. I think they would really like that...

Hugs,

Wordless Wednesday- From Jacob's Camera

2010-02-10T12:10:00.000-06:00

Jacob was given a camera for Christmas, and he really enjoys taking pictures and video. I love seeing things from his perspective!

Blessings,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-02-09T12:30:00.000-06:00

Outside my window... Sunshine and snow and a super cold day.

I am thinking... our violins should be here any minute...

From the learning rooms... memory verses, St. Valentine's day cards, workbooks, Bible Friends...

I am thankful for...being able to praise God through music...what a blessing!

From the kitchen...thinking my littlest one will start on baby cereal :)

I am wearing..a brown corduroy long skirt, brown, olive and light orange paisley shirt, light orange cardigan, and brown knee socks.

I am reading... not so much right now :(

I am hoping... to hear my doorbell ring :)

I am creating... St. Valentine's day cards

I am praying... for my dearest friend as her family is moving.

Around the house... "O Sacred Head of Jesus..."

One of my favorite things...baby kisses and coffee ;)

A few plans for the rest of the week... Busy week! homeschool group meeting tonight (unless the weather is bad...) St. Valentine's day party on Thursday, schoolwork, housework, a tea on Saturday...

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

Love,

Proverbs 31:21

2010-02-08T14:35:00.000-06:00

"She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet."

I think that the premise behind this verse is that the viruous wife is well prepared. Whether it be for cold weather, financial hardships, or any other difficulties that may arise.

Moving to the Midwest, and living a simple life, have made me think a little differently in regards to winter. Having grown up in the south, where winter is really just an extension of autumn and a brief pre-cursor to spring, I never thought much about "preparing". And really, in this world of modern convenience the "necessity" of preparing for winter is hardly there. It is not that difficult to make a quick trip to the local Wal-mart, even in a bit of snow!

But we have had a change of mindset in our family, that really changes the way we look at things. True, we may not "need" to prepare our household for winter...but perhaps doing so will be of great benefit.

It started, for us, with feeling God really leading us in the area of being better stewards of the resources that He has blessed us with. Just because we can afford to do things a certain way, does that mean we should? It had never occurred to us that we could learn to be so much more frugal simply by thinking a bit outside the box when it came to buying food for our family. Like so many others, when I felt like we needed apples, I would just buy a bag from the grocery store. But now we have learned more about using what we have, what is in season, and what is available at a good cost. Sure we may prefer to buy bananas over apples, but if we can get the apples for $5 for a half bushel-then shouldn't we find a way to really like apples? This is where the valuable art of food preservation comes in handy! I must admit to having felt very intimidated to learn to can foods. I think that was the one homemaking skill I was most afraid to attempt. But now I am so glad that I have learned. What joy comes from "putting up food" for my family to enjoy! What a sense of satisfaction that comes from stocking our pantry, and our freezer with homemade foods, so that no matter what comes, we have food, good homemade food at that. This is an area where I feel I still have so much to learn, and so many ways that I need to improve. But it is an exciting journey to grow in my role as homemaker!

Pax Christi,

Proverbs 31:20

2010-02-07T14:39:00.000-06:00

"She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy."

This is a subject that has really been on my heart quite a bit lately, and I hope that I will be able to do a good enough job in expressing my thoughts here.

I think it is fairly obvious to most Christians that we are obligated and should desire to help those less fortunate than us. And there are so many who are helping in wonderful ways, whether it be giving financially to charities, donating used clothing and toys to shelters and thrift stores or serving in soup kitchens. I pray that the Christian people will continue to give, and even give more.

But what I find interesting in this verse is the words 'she stretcheth out her hand" and "she reacheth forth her hands". This immediately made me picture how a mother reaches out to her children when they need something. I thought of when one of my little ones is crying or has hurt himself, how, without even thinking about it, my hands immediately reach out for them. It seems to be a mother's natural instinct. How many times throughout the day do we find ourselves reaching out to the ones who we care so much for?

Perhaps this picture of a mother is behind these words here...The virtuous wife wants to do something more than just give of her time, resources or money. She wants to also show true compassion, and nurture those who are in need. Giving of our resources is of course a valuable and much needed thing to do. But perhaps we might remember to give of our hearts as well. I have this thought in my head of wanting to invite someone who is hungry into my home, to have them sit with us, as part of the family, at the table to eat. Invite them to stay for our family Bible reading, in the hopes that perhaps we will have fed his heart as well as his tummy. I know this is idealistic to many, but it reminds me of a verse in Hebrews...

"Be not forgetful to entertain strangers: for thereby some have entertained angels unawares." (Hebrews 13:2)

Let us be mindful to be as charitable with our hearts as we are willing to be with our resources.

Love,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-02-03T12:04:00.000-06:00

I'm so glad this is "wordless" Wednesday because I wouldn't even begin to know what to say...

Hugs,

Menu Planning Monday

2010-02-01T13:55:00.000-06:00

Monday
Breakfast: Bacon and Eggs
Lunch: Sausage and Potato Skillet
Dinner: Baked Chicken, PA Dutch Green Beans, Corn, Rolls

Tuesday
Breakfast: Cinnamon Raisin Biscuits
Lunch: Chicken Salad and Bread
Dinner: Chuck Roast, PA Dutch Potato Bake

Wednesday
Breakfast: Fried Apple French Toast
Lunch: Hotdogs and a veggie
Dinner: Washday Casserole

Thursday
Breakfast: Potato Pancakes
Lunch: Leftover Casserole
Dinner: Meatloaf, Macaroni and Cheese, Broccoli

Friday
Breakfast: Oatmeal
Lunch: Peanut Butter and Jelly Sandwiches
Dinner: Homemade Tomato Soup and Grilled Cheese Sandwiches

Saturday
Breakfast: Peanut Butter Coffee Cake
Lunch: Sloppy Joe
Dinner: Creamy Chicken and Biscuit Casserole

Sunday
Breakfast: Chocolate Chip Banana Muffins
Lunch: Leftover Casserole
Dinner: Pinto Beans, Rice, Ham, Cornbread

Love,

Frugal Friday

2010-01-29T04:09:00.000-06:00

Last weekend we took a trip to our favorite thrift store. We like to go every few months or so to stock up on things.

We buy nearly all of our children's clothes second hand. One reason is obviously because it is frugal, lol. With four boys in a row, it just makes financial sense to save money where you can. Then, if a pair of pants gets a hole in a knee, or a shirt ends up with a stain that I can't get out, it isn't such a big deal.

We have a second reason for shopping this way... We have always dressed are boys in things like khakis and button down shirts rather than the typical jeans and tee shirts. You may wonder why in the world we would bother with that, even when we spend the day at home...It's our opinion (and it's just that, an opinion ;)) that dress affects behavior. When they wear jeans and tee shirts, they act like they are wearing rough and tumble play clothes, and when they are wearing nice pants they tend to act a little more accordingly.

For around $200 dollars, this is what we were able to find this trip:

For the boys:

* 2 size 5 sweaters
* 4 size 4 pajamas
* 4 size 5 pajamas
* 5 size 5 sweater vests
* 1 size 4 athletic pants and jacket set
* 2 size 2 sweater vests
* 2 size 2 pajamas
* 3 size 5 pairs of jeans
* 5 size 5 pairs of pants
* 1 pair size 5 shoes
* 2 pairs size 6 shoes
*1 pair size 8 shoes
*1 pair size 12 shoes
* 1 size 4 winter coat

For me :):
*7 skirt
*7 tops
*4 sweaters
*1 dress
* 1 jacket
* and a cute funky scarf, lol

Happy Thrifting!,

Learning Scripture

2010-01-28T11:56:00.000-06:00

"And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus." 2 Timothy 3:15

Is there anything more precious than hearing the Word of God come out of children's tiny little mouths? I love to hear their enthusiasm in learning Scripture verses!

As part of their Bible curriculum, each week we focus on a Bible story, and memorize a corresponding verse. We also do a coloring sheet for each story.

This week's memory verse is John 17:17. "Thy Word is truth."

Blessings,

Wordless Wednesday

2010-01-27T04:07:00.000-06:00

Is there anything that warms the heart as much as seeing your children playing happily and sweetly together?

Love,

Simple Woman's Day Book

2010-01-26T11:44:00.000-06:00

Outside my window...bright cheery sunshine!

I am thinking... wow this new blend of coffee is delicious!

From the learning rooms... new memory verse reward chart and flashcards, and the boys are ever so excited!

I am thankful for... knowing how blessed we truly are.

From the kitchen...I need to make wheat crackers and apple breakfast bars this afternoon.

I am wearing..a pink skirt with tiny blue flowers, a white shirt, and soft blue cardigan, oh and a pink bow in my hair, lol

I am reading... other than children's school books, not much reading going on here!

I am hoping... that my children always stay this sweet. I love their innocence and purity.

I am creating... lesson plans and workbooks.

I am praying... for all of those who are struggling right now.

Around the house... listening to Joseph saying "daptop, daptop" (laptop), Jamie contentedly sighing in his sleep...watching Jacob thinking deeply about something (oh how I wish I could see inside his mind!) and Joshua playing obliviously happily.

One of my favorite things... having friends who share the same values, and being encouraged by their edifying fellowship.

A few plans for the rest of the week... baking to restock the freezer, organizing clothing and closets.

Here is a picture thought I am sharing with you..

Love,